My Wife Walked Into My Office and Said…

Posted: November 10th, 2015 | Author: Gregg Stutts | Filed under: Difficulties, Relationships, Truth | Tags: , | No Comments »

“You should give people more than one day.”

Robyn was talking about an email I sent about the pre-sale for my new video course. Her suggestion was to make the pre-sale three days, not one.

“Some people didn’t open their email until last night or maybe they haven’t opened it yet.”

Huh. Maybe I should have consulted with her before I started the countdown timer.

So I want to apologize for not giving you enough time to check out the course, talk with your spouse and decide if it’s right for you.

If you’re not even sure what I’m talking about…I’m releasing a video course, “How to Understand Your Spouse and Transform Your Marriage” on November 30th. As an email subscriber or someone who reads my blog, you can order it now at the pre-sale discount of 75%.

The pre-sale was set to end Monday night at midnight, but I’m following Robyn’s suggestion to make the pre-sale last a few days, not one.

You can click here to learn more about the course and order it, if you’d like.


Pain Is Weakness Leaving Your Body

Posted: June 20th, 2009 | Author: Gregg Stutts | Filed under: Other | Tags: , , , , , | No Comments »

I don’t know who first said that. Probably the Marines.

Years ago when Robyn and I owned a personal training facility, we had one particular client (we’ll call her Susan) who’s goal seemed to be the avoidance of pain at all costs. Susan had certain exercises she liked and had a certain level of resistance she would tolerate. Increasing the resistance was out of the question. Week after week, month after month, it was the same thing.

Once in awhile, I would try to sneak in a little extra resistance on an exercise, but Susan would feel it and politely ask that the additional resistance be removed. As you can imagine, Susan’s results were less than stellar because she would not endure the necessary pain.

I really wish there was another way. I really do prefer pleasure and comfort. I don’t like to hurt. But to get faster, stronger, quicker, better or to lose weight and get healthier…pain is required. Just no way around it.

James 1:2-4 says:

Consider it pure joy, my brothers, whenever you face trials of many kinds, because you know that the testing of your faith develops perseverance. Perseverance must finish its work so that you may be mature and complete, not lacking anything.

It can be painful when our faith is tested, but it’s the training program for developing perseverance, which leads to maturity.

So how might this look in your life today?

If you need to be more patient, God is not going to zap you with more patience. He’s going to put you in situations that will require patience. If you need to learn to love unconditionally, then God may give you unlovable people to love. If you need stronger faith, He will orchestrate circumstances so you must trust Him.

None of those scenarios are easy. Often they’re painful, just like working out, but whatever you’re facing today–don’t quit. Is it a financial struggle? Loss of a job? A serious illness? A marriage that seems hopeless?

Pain is strengthening your character and conforming you to the image of Christ. Don’t resist it. Don’t run from it. It won’t last beyond what you can bear.

Pain is weakness leaving your body. Pain is also weakness leaving your character.